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第22章 友谊之树常青（第2页）

试着站在朋友的立场来看问题，敞开心扉，和和气气地讨论问题。

刚开始，杰西卡不明白乔依丝为什么不和自己说话，后来，乔依丝终于解释说，杰西卡的嘲弄让她很烦闷。

“我终于发现，她生气是因为我在班上男生面前取笑了她。”

杰西卡解释道。

她以为自己的逗弄没什么，不会伤害到乔依丝。

但是，当她知道这样做令乔依丝很难堪后，就不再这样，她们也就和好如初了。

妮可儿和米雪从幼儿园开始就是好朋友了。

到了大学，两人的关系有了微妙变化，米雪开始和妮可儿保持距离了。

“很长一段时间彼此没有说话了，之后，我试着和解，”

妮可儿说，“但是，我们现在好像成了客套的熟人了。”

友谊会起变化是很正常的事，两个朋友往往会慢慢疏远。

当其中一人试图维系，而另一个打算放弃的时候，友谊就出现问题了。

如果你的朋友不愿意重归于好，那就接受这个事实，继续自己的生活吧。

但是，如果你有能力修复，那么，你就会拥有这样一份友谊——牢固而又真挚。

JessidJoycewerebestfriendsinjuheydidalmtogether.TheeramisuandioppedtalkingtoJessiorethahs，JoycerefusedtotalktoJessiswerher;Duringthattime，Ifoundoutortantfriendshewas，"Jessicasays，"I'teveewhenIwasstudying，ljustthoughtabouthowtomendourfriendship."

&semester，Jessicatriedagain.Thistime，Joycewaswillingtoworkitout.Ittooksometimea，butthefriendship>

Mostofushavesufferedthepainofbrokenfriendships.Butthegoodhatmostfriendshipsded.

OxfordprofessorMichaelArgylereisheda15-yearstudythatexploredlehappy.Whatdidhefiohappinessishavingoionshipaworkoffrieudiesshowthatoursoeakeushealthieraostress.Maintaininglong-lastihyfriendshipisworththeeffort！

Ifthere'sabrokenfriendshipyou'dliketomend，trythefollo>

Giveyourfrieofthedoubt.

It'seasytoassumetheworst.Butifafriendhashurtyou，hemaynotevenrealizehe'sdoneso.

Matt，anAmeridoctoralstudewofriendshipsbrokenbyhurtfulwords.Bothrelatioerhealed.

"It'sprobablytruethatifsomeosyou，theyshouldhavek;Mattsays，"butthefactisweareallhumahingsup.Youogivepeoplethebehedoubtbecauseyouwill，aswell."

&iativetouhyourfriend.

Ifyou'vebeenhurt，yourinstinctisprobablytopullarotectyourself.Butifyoudothis，thefriendshipwilllikelydie.

"You，"says20-year-oldJamie，whohasrestoredseveralbrokenfriendships，"Friebrokeislost.Bothfrieoreaddemoheyaretrustworthy."

&hefirsttoapologize.

Evenifyouwerehurt，apoly.

Giveupyhttht.Otherwisethefli'tbefotten，asitshouldbe.

Walkthroughtheflicttogether.

Startbytryihingsfromyourfriend'spoialkabouttheproblemsopenlybutkindly.Atfirst，Jessi'tuandwhyJoycestoppedtalkihenJoyallyexplaiJessica'steasingbotheredher."Ifinallyfoundoutshewasaeasedherinfrontoftheboysinourclass."Jessied.Jessiothieasingandthoughtitshouldn'tbotherJoyce.ButtedthatitwasembarrassingtoJoyce，shestopped.Thentheirfriendshipcouldheal.

Niichellehadbeefriendssincepreschool.Butinichellesuddenlypulledaway."Wedidn'ttalktoeachotherforawhile，theorecile，"Nicolesays，"Butwe'rejustpoliteaow."

It'snormalforfriendshipstoge.Oftedriftapart.Problemsewheriestohangoherfriesgo.

Ifyourfriendisn'twillingtsout，acdmoveon.Butifyouareabletorecile，you'llhaveafriendshipthat'stried-and-true！