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第19章 守候瞬间的永恒 3（第1页）

第19章守候瞬间的永恒（3）

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Nowthatdoesn'tsououghassigilyoustoptorealizethatmostofthemeninthatgroupwereover35andwereraisediioweretaughtthatexpressiionswasned.Showingfeelingswasjusthiswasaverythreateningassigforsome.

Atthebeginningofourclass，Iaskedifsomeooshareeoldsomeohem.Ifullyexpeentovolunteer，aswasusuallythecase，butonthisevehemenraisedhishand.Heappearedquitemovedandabitshaken.

Asheuofhischair，hebeganbysaying，"Dennis，Iwasquiteangrywithyoulastweekwhehisassig.Ididn'tfeelthatIhadahosewordsto，andbesides，whowereyoutotellmetodosomethingthatpersonal？ButasIbegandrivinghomemycestartedtalkiwastelliIklywhoIosay'Iloveyou'to.Yousee，fiveyearsago，myfatherandIhadaviciousdisagreementandreallysiime.WeavoidedseeiheruelyhadtoatChristmasatherihen，oketoeachother.So，lastTuesdaybythetimeIgothomeIhadyselfIwasgoiherIlovedhim.

"It'sweird，butjustmakingthatdeedtoliftaheavyloadoffmychest.

"WhenIgothome，Irushediotellmyasgoingtodo.ShewasalreadyiIwokeherupaoldher，shedidn'tjustgetoutofbed，shecatapultedoutandhuggedme，aimeinourmarriedlifeshesawmecry.halfthenightdrinkialking.It>

"ThemIbrightandearly.IwassoexcitedIcouldhardlysleep.IgottotheofficeearlyandaplishedmoreintwohoursthanIhadthewholedaybefore.

"Itwas9：00.IcalledmydadtoseeifIeoverafterwork.Whehephosaid，'Dad，eoverafterwht？Ihavesomethingtotellyou.'Mydadrespohagrumpy，'Forwhat？'Iassuredhimitwouldn'ttakelong，sohefinanyagreed.

"It's5：30，Iarents'hthedothatDadwouldahedoor.IwasafraidifMomaIwouldoutaead.Butasluckwouldhaveit，Daddidahedoor.

"Ididn'twasteaookohedoorandsaid，'Dad，IjustcameovertotellyouthatIloveyou.'"Itwasasifatransformationydad.Beforemyeyeshisfaed，thewriodisappearaocry.Hereachedoutandhuggedmeandsaid，'Iloveyoutoo，son，butI'veosayit.'

"ItreentIdidn'twanttomove.Momwalkedbywithtearsiwavedandblewherakiss.DadandIhuggedforamomehe.Ihadn'tfeltthatgreatinalongtime.

"Butthat'snotevenmypoint.Twodaysafterthatvisit，mydad，roblems，butdidn'ttellme，hadanattadedupial，unscious.Idon'tknowifhe'llmakeit.

"Mymessagetoallofyouinthisis：Don'twaittodothethingsyoukobedoifIhadwaitedtotellmydad？MaybeIwillhe！

Takethetimetodowhatyouodoanddoitnow！

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我在一个成人班里教书。

最近，我做了一件“不可饶恕”

的事情。

我给学生们布置了作业，要求他们在下周之内到他们所爱的人家中去，并对他们所爱的人说“我爱你”

。

他们所要诉说的对象必须是他先前没有对其说过这三个字的人，或者至少是好长时间没有说过的。

这些学生都是35岁以上的成年人，而且是受过不鼓励表达情感教育的一代。

在你意识到这些之前，你会认为这项工作听上去并不难做。

然而，在他们先前的教育中，流露情感或落泪都是不可以做的事情，那么说出这三个字，对于某些人来说，将是一个极其艰巨的任务。