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微笑的力量 The Power of Smile（第1页）

微笑的力量ThePowerofSmile

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戴尔·卡耐基Daleegie

戴尔·卡耐基（1888—1955），美国著名的心理学家和人际关系学家。

卡耐基开创的“人际关系训练班”

遍布世界各地。

他以超人的智慧、严谨的思维，在道德、精神和行为准则上指导万千读者，给予人们安慰、鼓舞，使读者从中汲取力量，从而生活，开创崭新的人生。

早期著作《人性的光辉》《语言的突破》《美好的人生》《人性的优点》曾被译成28种文字，其中《人性的弱点》一书，是继《圣经》之后世界出版史上第二畅销书！

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