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●Different Hierarchy of People Status（第2页）

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■AdvidSuggestion

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，“youshouldpaymoreattentiontoyourhealth!”

，“youshouldshave!”

，“youshouldgotobed!”

...

Whealproposeaivesorfriends，thewordsareverymildaic，suchas:“itiscoldtoday.IfIwereyou，Iwouldputoer”

，“youhadbettershavethebeard.”

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■PershtofPrivacy

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■SendingGifts

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