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●Selfintroduce（第2页）

，withaninquiriolethimhercorrectwhatyouthihehtrepeathisherfirststhtonafirst-namebasis.

&hepersoname（e.g.，Mr.Brown）untilyouareiobeonafirst-namebasis，oherpersonhasintroducedhimselfherself.

Say“Hello.Mynameis______.”

toreintroduceyourselftoabriefformerace（ifyetthepersohepersonwillmostlikelyrespondwithhisherifheshedoesn’t，yousay“Youmaynotrememberme;I’mSimon.”

Or“Irememberyou，butI’vefottenyourname.”

Alwaysreintroduceyourselftoyoung，becausetheymayhavealreadyfottenwhieofgrown-upsyouareiervalsiheysa

Ifyouwanttointroduceyourselftotheseniororsomeohgreaterstatus，simplyuseg，Sir.MynameisSimonLongman;I’myourwife’sstudent.”

Payattentiontothepersonwhohasmadetheefforttointroducehimselfherselftoyou，ifyouarethepersonwithhigherstatus.Youshouldalsouseyourbestmannersandbecivilized.Doaseeminglyunimportaurnyouintoasnreatmascrueltybybeingunciviltoapersous.Giveeveryouleastthreeminutesofyourtimeaion.Bekind.

Thefollowiipsforself-introdu:

◇Lookpehtintheeyes.Eyetaportashowsyourdself-with“I’dliketointroducemyself”

iohavetheotherpersoionwhenyousayyourname.

◇Smile.Keepismile（ahtoo）isalsoimportant.Smileiskindoficebreaker;itmakesyoulooklikeahappy，stablepersonanddrawspeopletoyou.

◇Handshake.Afirmhandshake，on，revealsyourself-ce.Butmakesurethatyoudoherperson’sarmorhand（trysqueezingslightlywithyersratherthanyourthumb）.Youwilldefinitelygainyourcethroughasqueezeandtrolhandshake.

◇Sayyourfullnameaelyaskingforothers’.TheheirnameswhilesayiyouJohn”

or“It’sapleasuretomeetytheperson’snamewillhelpyourememberhishernameandagain，andwillshowyourcare，too.Haveagreatversation.Makesureyouintroduceyourfullname.

◇GivinganiameisabsolutelyOK，butitisinappropriatetosayyournameisyourniame.Ifyousideritajoke，itisanawkwardone.Alwaysgive’saniame，i.e.“Myname’sJack，buttheycallme‘Gorilla’”

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◇Tellingalittlebitrouostartyourversation.

◇Iiettotalkontopiwhichtheotherpersoedin.Butav.Youmaytellyourpositives，butdon’ttellyativesunlessyouareaskedto.

◇trateonthepers—givethemtherespectyouwouldliketoreceive.

&issueoroavoidshakingwithas>

&yourselfwithcebutwithoutaude.