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●Greeting Gestures（第1页）

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Peopleusedifferehroughoutthelegreetierhehandshakeisveryon，thoughithaslevariatith，amountof“pumping”

involved，ahelefthand.AsimplebowfromthewaistisusedinmanyAsiahmanyregionalvariationsseen.InIndia，itisohegreetialms）arepressedtogetheraheheartwiththeheadgeheArabictermsalaam，literally“peathespthatapaure，meansalowbowperformedwhenplagtherightpalmontheforehead.Andofcourse，therearealsos-standingritualsusediy，thoughingrare.

■Handshake

Agoodhandshakemakeorbreakyourfirstimpression.Aproperhandshakeshoodpersoofoaiquette，iogrowintoasucdividual.Therearesometipsthatwillhelpdevelopiyandhelpmakingagoodimpressionwithyourhandshake.

◇Standwhenyoushakeyourhands:Thismayseemsimpleandobvious;however，therearepeoplewhomessthisupbyahaingdoalking.Whenyoushakehands，alwaysbesureyouarestandingstill.

&adsmilebeforeyoushakehaadpleasahatyouarereallypleasedtomeetthepershandswith.

◇ypalmswhenyoushakehands.Alwaysmakesurethatyouhave，drypalmsbeforeyoushakehands.Ifypartiingnewpeople，wipeyourpalmsbeforehand.

&herpersonwhenyoushakehands.Ifythepersoime，say“Pleasuretomeetyou，MissMr.（surname）”

，Ifyoukisappropriatetouse“Gafternoon”

or“Hi，Howareyou”

.Makesureyouusethetitle（Mr.MissDr.Rev.etotoilyouarealloersonbyfirstname.Ahefirsttimetomeetsomeone，usinghishernameasisappropriate）willhelpyourememberit，andavoidawkwardsituationswhereyourodutothesameperson.

◇Haveafirmhandshake.Alimphandshakealwaysgivesabadimpressiontopeople，sodoesabhandshake.Ifyhandswithalady，youstillhaveafirmhandshake—manyladiesareoffendedwhehemalimphabecausetheyarewomen.

◇Thumb-toodhaapalmershake.Foodhahewebbetweenyourthumbandindexfingershouldmeetthewebbetweeherperson’sthumbandindexfinger.Youshouldalsorememberthatyourlefthandshouldneverbeiherwisedefeionwhenyoushakehands—itshouldbeinavisibleplaayusethelefthandtocuptheotherperson’shand，ortouchtheotherperson’sforearm，elbow，orshoulderinaing.

◇Payattentiohoughetiquettebookssuggestthatagoodhandshakeshouldbeabout5seg，youalwaystaketheotherpersonanddeliveryourhandshakeagly.Ifapersonwahiershorterhatohimher.

◇Handshakeshouldbeanup-downmotion.Shakehandsupanddowhaoside.Youshouldalsorememberthatthemovementshouldbefromthewristpointonwards，notjustfingers，whenyoushakehands.

◇Initiateahandshake.Inaformalsetting，thehandshakeshouldbeofferedbythepersonofahigherranktothepersonofalowerraheinterviewershouldfirstofferthehaerviewedpersoissideredasaodomierview），theCEOtothejunioremployeeetc.Thisisapplienandwomen.However，inasocialsetting，itisstroamanshouldwaituntilaladyoffersherhandsfirst，befherhands.Butiing，manywomenwillnotbeoffendedevenifyouofferherahandfirst.Asenioremployeewhoisamanshouldihehaoajuniorladyiing.Alsoremember，ifyouinitiateahaakewhenyoushouldgoaheadandfinishitproperlyanyahandmid-shakeisthew.

◇Alwaysendyourhahapleasantsmilea.

■Bowing

Bowithetorsoandheadasasocialgesturetoanotherpersonorsymbol.ItismostpromiinAsiaisalsotypiobilityandaristomanytriesanddistinEurope.Thegesturemaysometimesbelimitedttheheadandthisisespeiina，Japan，KoreaandIndia.Inthoseplaces，itmaybeexeding.

Basicboerformedinthisway:thebackstraightathesides（boysandmen）orthelap（girlsandwomen），andwiththeeyesdown.Bihewaist.Usually，thelongerahebowis，thestroioitwillexpress.

Generallyspeaking，bowsbedividediypes:informal，formal，andveryformal.Informalbowsaremadeataboutafifteendegreeatiltoverohefront.Moreformalbowsatabrees.Veryformalbowsareeveiquettesurroundingbowing，ingthelengthahofbopropriateresponse，isexglyple，itispolitetobowagaiherpersonmaintainshisherberthaed（generallyabouttwoorthreeseds），uponwhiayreotherbowihisofteoalongexgeressivelylighterbows.

Itisofteaninferiorbowslonger，moredeeplyalythanasuperior.Asuperienerallyonlylytoaninferior，whilesomeothersmaynotbowatallandaninferiorwillbendfhtlyfromthe

Bothiingandparting，bowsareonlyusediing.Bowsalmostautomatipaingphrases.However，bowsareheimmediatefamilyunlessaddressingafamilymemberafterorinantiofaloionorabsence.