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●General Guidelines for Guests（第2页）

Alacebeforetheaeralservidisusuallyheldintheevening.Ifyouakeittothefuisagoodopportunitytoeandsupportthedeceased’sfamily.Thewakemaybeheldinsomeohefuneralparlor.Whenyouarrive，firstofferyoursympathytfamily.Thisisthereasonforthewake，really.Thefamilygetitallhtinsteadofhavingpetheircesatwork，atthegym，andatthegrocerystore—overandover，ihey’dratheribadhitthemlikeatonofbricks.

Ifthecasketispresetostandbyit，sayihinkingofthedeceased’slife.Thenyoumaymiheuests.Youdoaytoolong—justloomakeyourpreseandpayyourrespects.Besuretosigerwithyournameandaddressbeforeyouheadout，asthefamilymaywishtolookitoverlaterandorsendyouahanks.

■TheFuneralService

Funeralservicesdifferdependingonthepersiousbeliefsofthefamily.Hardlessofthetypeoffuneralyouareattendingtherearesomeoiquette.

◆ArriveEarly

Itissuggestedtoarriveatthechureralhomeatleast15-20minutesearly.Youshouldelyaed.Don’tsitifewrows，theyareusuallyreservedforfamilymembers.Nottositatthebackeither，uhechapelisfull.Thefamilymightfeelisolatedatthefrontandtheclergymayhavediffimakingthemselvesheard.

◆TheDressCode

&hihefirstimagethatofteomindisthatofpeopledressedinblack.Whileblackisstillthetraditionalcolorforfuhisstandardhasloosenedupiimestoiherdark，servativeg.Still，thebestwaytogoisdonningablacksuit，whiteshirt，servativetie，andwell-shinedblackshoes.

&hislife’smostsolemno，aytoputasidefortandpersooshowyourutmostrespectfortheendofalifeisinexcusable.

◆Partithey

&imesduringtheservipartiisrequestedeitherviaaprayer，hymn.Youshionanddeilyevenifyouarenireewiththechoiceofdedi.

◆BeingaPallbearer

Beingapallbearerisatraditiohefamilywilltypiehees“honorarypallbearers”

—whohaveastrictlysymbolicrole—arealso）.Theinvitationtobeapallbearerisagreathonorandoneyouotrefuseexostseriousofreasons.It’slikethesomberflipsideofbeiobeagroomsman.

&hepallbearerwasoioheywerechargedwithgthetheetery.Nowtheroleisalmostentirelysymbolic.Thecasketistypicallysetdyoujustputyourhandonitasitrolls，onlyliftingitupwhenitistimetoloadandunloaditfromthehearse.

Ifyouaretobeapallbearer，etofu30minutesearlyandfindthefuor.HeShewillgivesyouinstruwhatwillbeexpectedofyather，whehedinwhichrowtosit.

Youshouldbedressedwellatafuneralanyway，butifyouareaskedtobeapallbearer，makeaolookpresentableaful.

◆DrivingintheFuneralPro

Funeralprosareohefewremaininghissociety.

&hefuneral，everyoheirdproceedasagrouptothecemetery.Thecarswillfollowbehiurnhtsandemergenkersandcloselyfollowthefrontofyou.Theprowilldrivesloeedlimit.Iries，lawsallorostodrivethrhtsandstopsigns.

Asanormaldriver，whenyoueuponafuneralpro，doyourbesttoletthempassandstaytogether.Don’ttrytotothepro.Ifsafe，pulltothesideoftheroadahelinekeepgoing.Intheolddays，mengotoutoftheirddoffedtheirhatswhilethepropassed.Probablytoodangerousohhfares，buta.

◆LeavePromptly

Thechiefmour，followedbyeveryoneelse.

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Inthedaysandmonthstoe，thefamilywilluetoneedyriefgandsupportservices;callorwriteularbasis;offerhelpandrunerrahemonspecialosandholidays;iheminyoursos.